What Men Want

What Men Want No 8: An Expensive Woman

What men want is an expensive woman. Pretty ironic, considering a lot of guys complain about how expensive their girlfriend or wife is. The funny thing is, as much as guys complain about it, they keep doing it. Why? I’ll explore the reasons to you if you keep on reading…

Have you ever gone to the effort of hand-picking someone a gift, only to have them turn it down? Turning down a gift is considered an insult just about everywhere around the world.

People give gifts because they place high value in the person who’s receiving the gift. In essence, whatever gift they’re giving has a value that is equal or more than the value that they see in that person. To turn a gift down means that you don’t value what they’re giving you the same as they are.

To accept a gift is to understand and accept someone placing a lot of value on you. A man who continually gives gifts to a woman values her a lot. If he keeps doing it he could either be:

1. whipped and be decreasing his own value by consistently giving her gifts, or
2. returning value that the female has given to him, in the form of gifts.

It’s exactly the same for women. There are women who do so much for their men but get little or no recognition in return. What do they do? They stay with their men, either bound by marriage or some other obligation. They don’t realize that they are making the situation worse for themselves and that the man is probably interested in another woman already.

You have to be able to say no. That’s first and foremost. That’s where self-respect comes from. If you say “yes” and agree to everything, you’re not doing yourself any favors, nor are you doing your relationship any favors. The best wives know that they are the leaders in the relationship. They control their men, because they have to. It usually doesn’t work the other way around, since men are generally not as emotionally intelligent.

The gift of giving is worth a lot more than receiving gifts themselves. So, if you want the man in your life, do the following: say no to the little things, eg. going out a certain night, spending time at their place, etc. That will jack up your value in his eyes. When he gives gifts, take them. The gift is a symbol of the value that he sees in you.

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