What Men Want

What Men Want In A Woman: A Woman Who Loves Herself

What men want in a woman is someone who can love themselves. I’m not referring to women who are narcissistic and can’t get themselves away from a mirror, I’m more talking about women who have respect for themselves. Women who respect themselves and spoil themselves have more value in the eyes of their men than women who do everything for their husband. If you’re doing something for your man that’s considered a luxury for him, you’re actually making him more likely to divorce you. Shocking? The 3 reasons are explained below…

1. It’s All About Timing

Women who spoil themselves put a lot of effort into themselves. Regardless of whether it’s looking pretty or making sure that they have the best resources to improve themselves (ie. fitness, social status, etc…) these women know that their time is valuable.

So what about the time that these women allocate to someone else other than themselves? These other people in their lives must be important then.

2. No Self-Respect

Consider the opposite: a woman who slaves away, working for the man at work, then working for her man at home. In the 24 hours a day, they say a good allocation of your time is 8 hours for sleep, 8 hours for play and 8 hours for work.

Well, for her 8 hours of play, she’s mainly doing stuff for her man, maybe cleaning up after him, cooking for him, things like that. She doesn’t spend time on herself. Her man continues to treat her that way.

3. Who Would You Choose?

If you had to choose one woman to marry, who would you choose? A lot of men might say the 2nd lady, just out of sympathy. They might also say the second lady because she would be good wife material. I’d say the first lady, but on a few conditions.

The first lady respects herself. She knows her time is valuable. A woman like that is desirable because she puts in the effort to become desirable. It doen’t get given to you, you’ve got to go and get it. Assuming she also had good wife traits, she’d definitely be the one to go for.

What men want in a woman is someone who puts themselves before others. As bad as it sounds, if the person doesn’t do this even to a small degree, the marriage is headed for a divorce. That’s the plain truth.

About the Author

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